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From breakthroughs in Orthodox LGBTQ+ inclusion to conversations shaping the future of our community, Eshel’s work continues to make waves. Explore news coverage, op-eds, and articles that highlight our mission and the people behind it.

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Not Just Accepted, But Celebrated

Eshel’s retreat for parents of LGBTQ kids gives support, builds community Community is where you build it. It’s where you find a home. Where you can talk about the things…
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Eshel | And Here’s Modi

Modi and Leo are joined by Miryam Kabakov, the executive director of Eshel, an organizing that seeks to build LGBTQ+ inclusive Orthodox Jewish communities. Listen: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1826078/episodes/18107758
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The Oneness Of Being Queer and Jewish

  How do you balance faith, sexuality, and life—without losing your mind? Finding the just right path to authenticity can feel overwhelming, even chaotic. But here’s the truth: authenticity is…
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A Special Look: Modi

“To be honest with you, I love Eshel … I’m a member now. I’m in Eshel … they’re basically helping other people feel the way I do. Just be a…
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Two Calls

Two Calls From the Editor by Larry Gordon I received two phone calls last Friday in rather rapid succession, and the subject matters of both calls had nothing to do…
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Queer Orthodox Jews Want More Than Tolerance

According to Miryam Kabakov, executive director of ten-year-old Orthodox LGBTQ+ organization Eshel, the Orthodox community has become exceedingly more open over the past decade. “When we started,” she says, “Orthodox communities…
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Call Me By My Name

GABRIEL KLAPHOLZ GUEST COLUMNIST AT YALE NEWS   Don’t make eye contact. Don’t make too much noise. Definitely don’t make it obvious that you’re eavesdropping on that couple’s conversation two…
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A Journey Helped by Eshel

Originally posted on The Jewish Link It is perhaps inarguable that for most Orthodox Jewish parents, the path for their children is to get an education, meet the “right” person,…
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Transgender and Jewish in Philly?

‘It’s not so simple when Moshe becomes Marsha’ In the last few years, the battle over transgender rights has roiled school districts, courtrooms, statehouses, and the national political stage, most…
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Two events in LA!

Homosexuality and Halakhah: Pragmatic, Ideal and Real Responses to the Challenge Date: Monday, February 27 Time: 8 PM Place: At the home of Dina and Michael Glouberman in Beverlywood. RSVP…
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The Pledge

I am a gay Orthodox Jewish teen. That in and of itself may be one of the most controversial sentences in modern Jewish history, but it’s also simply my life.…
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Eshel Internships

Eshel currently has an internship opportunity in the Los Angeles area. Eshel sometimes has other internship openings. If you would like to intern with Eshel, please contact us at info@eshelonline.org…
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Canadian Jewish News – May 20, 2015

Q&A Rabbi Steven Greenberg: Don’t demonize gay Jews [see the full article] Jodie Shupac, Staff Reporter, Wednesday, May 20, 2015 Tags: News Boston Conservative Judaism Eshel Kadimah-Toras Moshe LGBTQ Jews Orthodox…
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The Jewish Week – April 15, 2015

‘Safe Spaces’ For Orthodox LGBTQ Students Spreads On Campus Program that began at YU gets new grant and intercampus launch [See full article] Jewish college students gather for LGBTQ “safe…
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Tablet Magazine – March 17, 2015

Out, Proud, and Kinda Loud at Yeshiva University Students are challenging the Modern Orthodox school’s traditional stance on LGBT issues [See full article]   Dasha Sominski rushed into the Shabbat…
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The Parents Are Our Future

This article appeared in the Fall, 2014 issue of the Journal of Jewish Communal Service, Vol. 89, No. 1.  It is disseminated with the permission of the publisher, the JPRO Network.  Subscriptions…
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Rabbi Greenberg on the Jewish Broadcasting Service

Rabbi Greenberg on “Hachnassat Orchim” and how it needs to extend to the Gay Community at the Ferguson Library in Stamford, which aired JBS in January 2014 and can be viewed online:     https://blip.tv/jbs/rabbi-steven-greenberg-jfs-lecture-inclusion-gay-jews-7139294
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Slingshot

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Eshel in L.A.

Jewish Community Foundation Awards Cutting Edge Grant to a JQInternational and Eshel partnership  in Los Angeles Funding Will Make Possible Initiatives Supporting Jewish Civic Life, Arts & Culture, Human Services,…
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Moment Magazine

Steve Greenberg: How Orthodox Jews Changed Their Minds On Gay Rights Same-sex rights proponents suffered an unusual loss this week when a federal judge in Louisiana upheld the state’s ban on gay…
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The Canadian Jewish News

LGBTQ Jews need a place in community In  1952, my dad was a popular senior on his high school football team and my mother was a recent immigrant from war-torn France.…
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Leslee Komaiko

A new resource for LGBT Jews by Leslee Komaiko In 2009, nine years into Shelby Ilan-Pacheco’s marriage to her husband, she came to know with certainty something she had felt…
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Ha'aretz

Orthodox transgender child is shut out of shul ‘God knows I’m a girl,’ says the Midwestern teen who was shunned from her synagogue upon transitioning from Moshe to Miryam. More…
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Ha’aretz

Orthodox transgender child is shut out of shul ‘God knows I’m a girl,’ says the Midwestern teen who was shunned from her synagogue upon transitioning from Moshe to Miryam. More…
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Ha'aretz

To be young, Orthodox and openly gay Orthodox Jewish high schools in the United States try to balance concerns for their reputation and their students, as growing number of teens…
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Ha’aretz

To be young, Orthodox and openly gay Orthodox Jewish high schools in the United States try to balance concerns for their reputation and their students, as growing number of teens…
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Kipa.co.il

Rabbi Avi Gisar: I Will Allow a Lesbian Family to Live in Ofra  By: Netael Bendel Translated by EREZ TRANSLATIONS Rabbanit Esti Rozenberg, dean of the Migdal Oz Academy, said,…
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The Jewish Week

Inclusion Gets Boost Across County As part of an ongoing effort to ensure that Westchester’s Jewish institutions are welcoming to LGBTQ Jews — and their families — Rabbi Steven Greenberg,…
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Richard Dweck

Parents, It’s OK to Be Human By Richard Dweck This weekend I was privileged to be asked to be facilitator at the National Eshel Retreat for Orthodox Jewish parents of LGBT children.…
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My Jewish Learning.com

Let’s Get The Conversation Started LGBT Jews and Orthodox Communities We are a group of observant, Orthodox families from across the United States, including Illinois, Maryland, Massachusetts, New Jersey, New…
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The Jewish Exponent

Don’t Exclude Our Gay, Orthodox Children As a Modern Orthodox Jew and a Jewish educator, I have written, spoken and taught about homosexuality and our need as a community to…
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The Jewish Week

My Secret, As The Father Of An LGBTQ Child — Not What You Think! Editor’s Note: Eshel, an organization that advocates for an Orthodox community that is inclusive of LGBTQ…
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The Jewish Week

New Hope For Gay Orthodox Jews The holidays are over. Through the fasting and food, the succession of pageant, discomfort, reconciliation and exultation, a single moment continues to stands out.…
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Moment Magazine

Out of the Closet, Into the Fire This March, history was quietly made in a Saturday morning Orthodox minyan (prayer quorum) at Brandeis University. Avi, a 22-year-old then-college junior from the Boston…
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Gay City News

Shlomo Ashkinazy’s Reverence For Storytelling As the 1970s turned into the ‘80s, many Jews experienced a spiritual awakening that brought them closer to the pietistic ways of their grandparents and…
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OU.org

Orthodox Union Statement on Today’s Supreme Court Rulings Today, the leadership of the Union of Orthodox Jewish Congregations of Americaissued the following statement: “In response to the decisions announced today by…
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Tablet Magazine

For LGBT Orthodox Jews, Growth of Social Media Creates a Safe Space Online Websites, blogs, Facebook groups, and online support groups offer the chance to connect without the risk of…
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St. Louis Jewish Light

Gay and Orthodox: The Mother Road to Acceptance It’s Friday afternoon and I am driving from Chicago down to my friend Aviva’s house in Saint Louis with two of my…
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The Jewish Week

Gay Jews Need More Than Tolerance I write in response to Stuart Kurlander’s Opinion piece, “Door Is Wide Open For Gay Jews To Be Leaders” (April 26). I am a…
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The Jewish Advocate

Gay Orthodox Jews Deserve Our Support A response to Brian Camenker, by Rabbi Zev Farber Letter to the Editor The Advocate The Talmud declares that anyone who has no compassion for…
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Morethodoxy

The Stranger Within Your Gates Answering Questions about Bais Abraham’s Recent Eshel Shabbat  On a recent Shabbat, Bais Abraham hosted speakers from Eshel (www.eshelonline.org), a national organization building communities of…
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St. Louis Jewish Light

LGBT and Observant: St. Louis Jewish Light covers Eshel event Elissa Kaplan says deciding 10 years ago to tell her two oldest children, then ages 9 and 11, that she…
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The Jewish Advocate

Tough Love is Needed In response to Eshel’s retreat for Orthodox parents of LGBT people, Brian Camenker wrote this letter to the editor of Boston’s Jewish Advocate. A response by…
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St. Louis Post Dispatch

Gay Orthodox Jews to gather and discuss challenges they face When Hyim Shafner first started working as the campus rabbi for St. Louis Hillel at Washington University in the mid-1990s,…
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The Jewish Advocate

Retreat set for parents of LGBT Jews: Event was inspired by local mother’s request When Shabbat begins on April 26, Orthodox parents and adult relatives of lesbian, gay, bisexual and…
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Tablet Magazine

Orthodox Parents of LGBT Children Navigate Their Own Coming Out Process A weekend retreat inspires advocacy for gay Orthodox Jews and creates a support network for families in religious communities…
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Portland Press Herald

At Hanukkah, rejoicing over peaceful victory for same-sex marriage Loving couples triumphed over wrong beliefs, just as Jews did over the Greek army in ancient Israel. PORTLAND — We Jews are…
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My Jewish Learning

Senior Year: APs, College Prep, and Coming Out in My Orthodox High School When I tell my friends who are not Orthodox that I’m out of the closet and attending a Modern…
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Eshel Goes to the Mid-West

Eshel Goes to the Midwest! Amram Altzman courtesy of the American Jewish World “Eshel is the only place where I feel completely comfortable. I am completely out as a lesbian…
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Jerusalem Post

Suicide rates high for Orthodox homosexual youths Research shows 20% of LGBT sample attempted suicide, compared to 3.5% rate for general youth population. Suicide rates among Orthodox homosexual youth are…
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The Jewish Week

Orthodox Gays Need Allies, Not Just Compassion A few months ago, a young Orthodox rabbi decided to “come out of the closet,” in a sense, when he publicly identified himself…
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The Jewish Week

Writing Her Way To A New Life Documenting the fraught journey from Jay to Joy Ladin. In an interview, Joy Ladin begins several responses, “When I started living as myself…”…
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Oy! Chicago

Reconciling sexuality with religion One would be hard pressed to find instances of Orthodox Judaism and LGBTQ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer) occupying the same sentence. Yet for the women…
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Tablet Magazine

Stay Out of It On same-sex marriage, Orthodox Jews should keep the religious and civil separate—as they do on other issues Last week the two leading umbrella organizations of Orthodox…
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Morethodoxy

Obama’s Advocacy of Gay Marriage: An Alternative Orthodox Response In an interview with ABC News last week, President Barack Obama said, “I think same-sex couples should be able to get married.” Since…
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OUT

Y-Love is Ready for Love   The black Jewish hip-hop artist Yitz Jordan has struggled with his public image for years. Now he’s ready to come out. Most people have…
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The Jewish Journal

I’m Coming Out of the Closet Last night I spoke on a campus interfaith leader panel about the subject of LGBT and religion. One of the questions we were asked…
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New York Times

Vows: Chris Barley and Marc Kushner <nyt_text> DURING a summer internship in 2007, Chris Barley thought that he had found a mentor in the architect Marc Kushner. Both were 6-foot-4,…
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The Jerusalem Post

Amsterdam chief rabbi suspended for homosexuality stance The chief rabbi of Amsterdam, Aryeh Ralbag, was temporarily relieved from his post Wednesday by the board of the Orthodox Jewish community, after…
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Morethodox

Homosexuals in the Orthodox Community Introduction Few social issues facing the Orthodox Jewish community are as emotionally charged as that of the place of homosexuals, especially the gnawing question of…
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The Jewish Week

Nefesh Head Backs Away From ‘Torah Declaration’ On Gays With the controversial idea that gays and lesbians can be “cured” through therapy rippling across the Orthodox Jewish world of late,…
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Jewish Ideas Daily

Orthosexuality The Talmud tells a story about one Rabbi Kahana who hid under the bed of his master, Rabbi Abba (better known as Rav), as the latter was having sex…
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JTA

Orthodox rabbinic group won’t take position on reparative therapy for gays NEW YORK (JTA) — The Rabbinical Council of America said it will not take a position on so-called reparative…
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The Jewish Week

Misguided Rabbinical Priorities Nowadays Orthodoxy is all about sex. Immodesty, promiscuity, homosexuality: the public discourse of the Orthodox Jewish world seems disproportionately to take place in the bedroom, the dressing…
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The Jewish Week

The Case for Companionship A month ago I officiated a Jewish commitment ceremony and civil marriage for two men in Washington, D.C. The event was sensationally reported as a “Gay…
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The Jewish Week

Orthodox Mental Health Workers Seen Changing On Homosexuality Founder of gay Orthodox support group attends Nefesh conference while ‘reparative therapy’ group is absent. The founder of a support group for…
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JTA

At Orthodox mental health group’s forum, openly gay Jews get their say and some support HAUPPAUGE, N.Y. (JTA) — The 15th annual conference of Nefesh International, an association of Orthodox…
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Huffington Post

Wanted: Orthodox Rabbis to Sign Anti-Gay Declaration When The Huffington Post first published my article “Once Upon a Gay: A Jewish Journey Through the Ex-Gay Movement,” I was amazed to…
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HEEB Magazine

Once Upon a Gay…. Many people are surprised when I tell them I voluntarily entered reparative therapy at the age of 21 without pressure from family or religious leaders. I…
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Itzik's Well

Good Night Irene, You Shabbos Queen There is much to be grateful for today in New York City, where I happen to be for a week-long, ultimately called-on-account-of-weather Storahtelling training. The hurricane…
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Itzik’s Well

Good Night Irene, You Shabbos Queen There is much to be grateful for today in New York City, where I happen to be for a week-long, ultimately called-on-account-of-weather Storahtelling training. The hurricane…
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YU Beacon

Finding God At the End of the Rainbow It’s not easy, knowing that a part of your identity, of who you are, has the potential to tear your family apart,…
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The Jewish Week

Gay And Orthodox, According To Jon Marans Can homosexuality and Orthodox Judaism mix? In Jon Marans’ new Off-Broadway play, “A Strange and Separate People,” Jay (Jonathan Hammond) and Phyllis (Tricia…
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Ha'aretz

Does liberal Judaism benefit from seeing gays as the ‘other’? Representations of sameness help prompt empathy. But depictions of difference may help us come to terms with our phobias and…
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Ha’aretz

Does liberal Judaism benefit from seeing gays as the ‘other’? Representations of sameness help prompt empathy. But depictions of difference may help us come to terms with our phobias and…
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Huffington Post

Gay Orthodox Jews See Growing Acceptance In Israel By Michele Chabin c. 2011 Religion News Service TEL AVIV, Israel (RNS) Though never short on spectacle, this year’s annual gay pride…
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Yutopia

Why Orthodox Jews Should Not Oppose Legalizing Same Sex Marriage On May 23 2011 several prominent Orthodox Jewish organizations issued ajoint statement declaring their opposition to legalizing same sex-marriage. The brief…
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Associated Press

Religious gays battle for acceptance Israeli Orthodox homosexuals increasingly rejecting age-old dictates to ignore their attraction, abstain from sex or undergo therapy that supposedly will make them straight A once…
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Ha'aretz

Devout and proud The gay religious community in Israel is represented by three different organizations, reflecting divergent views on rabbinical authority, consummation of same-sex relations and raising families. The crowding…
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Ha’aretz

Devout and proud The gay religious community in Israel is represented by three different organizations, reflecting divergent views on rabbinical authority, consummation of same-sex relations and raising families. The crowding…
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Ha'aretz

Israeli rabbis launch initiative to marry gay men to lesbian women So far, 11 marriages have been performed, and some were surprising successes. Rabbis from the religious Zionist community have…
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Ha’aretz

Israeli rabbis launch initiative to marry gay men to lesbian women So far, 11 marriages have been performed, and some were surprising successes. Rabbis from the religious Zionist community have…
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The American Israelite

Letter to the Editor Dear Editor, Purim is a holiday that celebrates the power of secrets and their revelation; it is, in effect, the holiday of “coming out.” The rabbis…
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The Tablet

Unorthodox Position Meet Washington’s gay-friendly Orthodox rabbi When Zvi Bellin, a gay Washingtonian, heard that a vigil was being organized by members of the gay and Jewish communities in the…
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The Jewish Week

Gay Orthodox Shabbaton Was Like ‘Heaven’ For those on the margins, a new sense of belonging at first-ever event. Usually, when Adam goes to shul, he feels like part of…
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Psychology Today

When Love Fights with Faith A Community of Jews Learns to Live with Contradiction Some individuals who experience conflicts between their traditional religious beliefs prohibiting homosexuality and their same-sex attractions…
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Ynet News

Religious gay teens find safe haven Israel Gay Youth helps teens struggling with conflict between religious, sexual identity reach peace For a little over a year members of the religious…
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New Jersey Jewish Standard

Rabbis explore Jewish views of sexuality at Kaplen JCC forum Rabbi Yosef Adler, who is Orthodox, said he might rejoice if his own child established a loving same-sex relationship, but…
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The Jerusalem Post

The Morality of Gay Adoption On December 14, Rosie O’Donnell and I will be conducting a public conversation in New Jersey about families and kids, the celebrity culture and the…
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The New Jersey Jewish Standard

The answers lie in our love for our daughter The brouhaha that has ensued over The Jewish Standard’s printing a same-sex marriage announcement in September may yet lead to a…
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