Parents & Families
Support Groups and Local Branches

Be a Part of a Supportive Community

If you are looking for a place to discuss your experiences as an Orthodox or frum parent of an LGBTQ+ child, our support groups are a confidential and affirming space. Whether your child has just shared their identity with you or you are navigating family or community issues, our support groups are a safe place to ask questions as well as process and  discuss your feelings with other parents who have similar experiences.

If you are looking for support for your LGBTQ+ child, learn more about our LGBTQ+ resources. 

Virtual Support Groups

All of our support groups provide a safe, confidential, and nonjudgmental environment for exploring our identities.

Straight Spouses of LGBTQ+ Partners Support Group

Has your spouse come out to you? This support group is for anyone in the Orthodox community whose husband or wife has come out as gay, lesbian, or transgender, whether you are married, separated, or divorced. This group is a confidential and supportive space to process difficult emotions, connect with others in similar situations, navigate co-parenting under these new circumstances, and learn how to move forward with resilience.

Facilitators: Esther East

Cadence: Monthly, 1st Monday of the month | 7 pm ET 6 pm CT | 4 pm PT

Platform: Zoom

Parents Drop-In Support Group

Drop-in every Wednesday to shmooze, chat, ask questions, and hear topics of interest!

Facilitators: Dr. Saundra Sterling Epstein

Cadence: Weekly, every Wednesday | 12 pm ET | 11am CT | 9am PT

Platform: Zoom

Parents of Trans and Gender Nonconforming Children Support Group

This support group is for Orthodox parents of transgender, gender nonconforming, or questioning children of all ages. This is a confidential and supportive space to ask questions, process emotions, connect with others navigating similar journeys. 

Facilitators: Monica Sass

Cadence: Monthly, 4th Monday of the month | 9 pm ET 8 pm CT | 6 pm PT

Platform: Zoom

Local Eshel Branches

We facilitate Eshel gatherings in cities across the country! We offer events and programming to build LGBTQ+ community and connection in the areas below. Sign up for notifications for events in your city.

Current Local Branches

Don’t see your city? Contact us to start hosting Eshel events in your area!

Check out our calendar of events to see all upcoming support groups, meetups, and events.