Eshel Out Loud

News, Views, and Updates from the Eshel Community

Lighting Up the Darkness

Lighting Up the Darkness

I remember being ten years old and feeling uncomfortable as I tried to explain to my Christian friends in public school what Chanukah is about. The miracle of an oil lamp lasting eight days just doesn’t have the punch of the birth of the baby Messiah. While both holidays celebrate light in the midst of [more]
What’s in a Strategic Plan?

What’s in a Strategic Plan?

At my first Eshel retreat in 2010, I remember feeling like the idea of queer Orthodox community, or a true observant future was unfathomable. I couldn’t wrap my head around the idea that parents would support their children coming out. I assumed the shuls and schools I grew up in would never engage in conversations [more]
Giving Thanks

Giving Thanks

What Eshel staff are grateful for this year: I'm grateful for continued support in living authentically in every aspect of my identity. - Mendel I'm grateful to have access to so many rich, vibrant, and energetic Jewish communities. - Sophia I'm grateful for queer friendships. - Jamie I'm grateful for my wife, everything that she [more]
On Being a Trans Ally

On Being a Trans Ally

As Jews, we know the dangers that come from dehumanizing rhetoric. For thousands of years, antisemitism has flourished by asserting that we are less human, somehow other than the rest of the world. When people view us as animals, or a plague, or an infestation, it is easy for those in power to argue that [more]
Hospitality as a Central Pillar

Hospitality as a Central Pillar

“And He (Abraham) planted an eshel (tamarisk) in Beersheba, and he proclaimed there the name of the Lord, God of the universe” (Genesis 21:33). Every year, when we read Parshat Vayera, we are reminded of why we chose the eshel tree as our namesake. In the Torah, the eshel is an ancient welcome sign. In [more]
We’re Here, We’re Queer, We’re Making History

We’re Here, We’re Queer, We’re Making History

Over the past few months, Eshel has had the honor of being featured in the Capital Jewish Museum’s exhibit “LGBT Jews in the Federal City,” which celebrates more than a century of LGBTQ Jewish presence in Washington, DC. Walking through the exhibit this past week, I felt deeply moved by the stories and the legacy [more]