Our Creative SpiritsThis weekend: Explore how we use our creativity living as Orthodox + LGBTQ+ individuals. Decipher the puzzle of myriad identities. Meet presenters; writers, artists, musicians, crafts people, and the rest of us.
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Make every Havdalah fabulous with your very own rainbow havdalah candle. Let Chaim show you how to create your unique work of art from start to finish.
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Queer the Quill: A Hands-on Taste of Safrus STaM
Join the biggest LGBTQ+ Orthodox+ gathering ever.
Give a Session, Perform at the Talent Show, Sell your Craft!
We gather during our annual weekend, on Parshat Va’eira, with other Orthodox/formerly Orthodox/traditional/Ortho-curious individuals who seek connection and community.
This retreat is also for anyone who wants a Shomer Shabbat experience with other LGBTQ+ Jews. During Shabbat we get to know each other, learn, sing, and shmooze, and Saturday night we share our talents and have lots of fun! On Sunday we offer exciting out-of-the-box learning opportunities.
This year, the weekend begins roughly around candle-lighting times at 4:26 pm and goes through Sunday. Stay tuned for more information on the program as we get closer to the date.
LOCATION: ISABELLA FREEDMAN RETREAT CENTER
Address: 116 Johnson Road, Falls Village, CT 06031 • 860.824.5991
The terrain at Isabella Freedman includes a mix of gravel and paved roads, gentle inclines and grassy areas. When we are there, it is usually cold and snowy, and incredibly beautiful.
All beds are twins, unless otherwise noted. Bedding and towels are provided. Each room has a bureau or closet, chair, lamp, alarm clock, towels and soap. A small refrigerator can be rented for a $ 25 fee. All cottages are fully winterized. None of the units have doors that may be locked from the outside. Valuables may be stored in the office safe. Rooms do not have telephones or television sets. Each cottage has one phone in a common hallway or porch space.
During cooler months, rooms are heated to a comfortable 68°. Where thermostats are accessible to participants, we ask that you follow instructions on accompanying signage to ensure that you and your neighbors are comfortable and to conserve energy. Where thermostats are not accessible, please ask a site coordinator for assistance.
Cots and cribs may be added to certain rooms but not to others so please let us know well in advance and we will be glad to help you with these requests. Please notify us if you have a physical challenge that requires you to be close to the main building or in a wheelchair accessible room.
If you have a question about the different room options, contact firstname.lastname@example.org.
HOW TO GET THERE:
Transportation to and from the retreat is at your own expense. Check out the Ride Board to find or offer a carpool to the retreat. Here are some options below.
By Metro-north train:
Take the Metro North train to Wassaic. The trip is approximately 2 hours from Grand Central. Call 1-800-METRO-INFO or visit http://www.mta.info/ for an updated schedule. Click here for a link to fares.
Getting from train to retreat site:
Upon registering, you can sign up for the Isabella Freedman shuttle that will bring you to and from the train station in Wassaic. The drive from Wassaic to Isabella Freedman is about 30 minutes.
SHUTTLE FROM WASSAIC TO ISABELLA FREEDMAN:
This shuttle will only pick you up if you are on the train that leaves Grand Central Station on Jan. 15th at 11:47 a.m. and arriving at 2:03 p.m. into Wassaic.
SHUTTLE FROM ISABELLA FREEDMAN TO WASSAIC:
This shuttle will only bring you from the retreat site at the end of the retreat on Jan. 17th to the 2:27 train in Wassaic arriving into Grand Central Station at 4:46.
Shuttle One way=$25
Shuttle Round trip= $50
We must receive your payment for the shuttle by Dec. 30, 2017. The shuttle payment is non-refundable. If you are signing up for the shuttle after you have registered, click here to make a payment. Indicate in the memo line that the payment is for the shuttle.
Third-party taxi service is available from the Wassaic train station to Isabella Freedman.You must call in advance for a reservation. Lakeville Taxi: (860) 435 8000.
Bradley International Airport in Hartford, CT is located 1¼ hours from the retreat center. We can recommend third-party taxi and limousine services from the airport to Isabella Freedman.
PETER PAN / BONANZA BUS LINES offers daily bus service to Canaan, CT from New York City and points throughout New England. Call (888) 751-8800 for a schedule. This is a 3-hour trip from the Port Authority Bus Terminal. Third-party taxi service is available from the Canaan bus station to Isabella Freedman. You must call in advance for a reservation. Lakeville Taxi: (860) 435 8000.
For more directions and transportation information, please visit the Isabella Freedman website.
All retreat participants must check in upon arrival. Check-in typically begins at 2:00 pm. The program usually begins around candle-lighting time which is 4:26 pm.
All members of the group must check out of their rooms by 9:00 am on the scheduled day of departure. If you have not checked out of your room by 9:00 am, an additional $25 per person late fee will be charged. Departure from the retreat site is usually no later than 2.00 p.m.
Some participants may not be out as LGBT in their daily lives, or may have other important reasons for keeping their attendance at the event confidential. You have affirmed that you WILL NOT POST OR DISTRIBUTE PHOTOGRAPHS or audio/video recordings of other attendees publicly unless you have the EXPLICIT permission of every attendee represented therein. This includes distribution or posting online on flickr, Facebook, MySpace, and similar sites, as well as anywhere else in which photographs and other representations are publicly available.
INFORMATION: Please do not share information you have heard about individuals at the retreat with anyone else. For many people who attend, strict confidentiality is crucial.
There is a wide range of pricing and housing options at Isabella Freedman, from a Dorm room at $245 to a Deluxe Single in the Weinberg or May buildings at $760. When you click on the Register Here button above, you will see a description of the choices in housing. Registration prices are per person, and include all meals and activities throughout the weekend. Don’t miss the Early bird prices which end Dec. 17th!
Financial Aid: We are committed to making our weekends as inclusive and accessible as possible. We provide a limited amount of financial aid available for those who, for financial reasons, cannot otherwise attend.
The priority deadline for financial aid is by December 15th, 2017. After that date, applications for remaining scholarships will be reviewed on a first come, first served basis. Timeline for applying for financial aid:
- Fill out the financial aid form by Dec. 15
- You will hear back from us within one to two weeks of applying with instructions and a registration code.
- You will have a few days to register. After that time we will pass on the aid to someone else.
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